Like raising a child restless

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Do you have a restless child at home, you never stop jumping, running, screaming, fighting, laughing and mourn estrepitosamente seas?, Are you tired or weary of this situation? Well here a few tips that will help in the difficult task of raising that "angel" in our sweet home:

1. Do not think you've failed as a parent or guardian. He thinks that this is his way of expressing themselves, only should aim (a) at maturity. Soon all his behaviour is revolt as anecdotal memories, for the holidays.

2. Reward the good that does. Just as corrects it when it misbehaves, you should also reward when behaves well, so things are insignificant. Tell other household members enthusiastically rejoice, you see your happiness.

3. Prepare a proper environment in which it operates. Put relaxing music, order the place, which smell good, with natural lighting and ventilation. Distribute the space areas and put signs: instead of reading and study, play area, creative zone (for painting or construction, etc.). Do it with the child.

4. Tell of any plans they have in mind and ask his opinion. This will give the child the prospect that is valued and loved, and that their opinion counts in family life.

5. Dedíquele few minutes a day. Talk with the child (a), on their day, their concerns, their goals. If it is possible to pray with him and procúrele a council. Let draw their conclusions about what should change. Amel apóyelo and in the process.

6. If you live in a small place, remove them to the park. You may need to go out and run and energies spend a few minutes, before being able to perform some activity calm, as their homework. Báñelo to return and sit with him to avoid distractions.

7. Control your time with your TV or computer. The cartoons today are laden with violence and encourage children, find it with programming appropriate to their age and explain why because it restricts other. What she knows that everything is done for their sake.

8. Try to have established schedules for each activity. Let children know the schedules they have, which is lunchtime, play, sleep and perform tasks, for example. Vary the schedule on weekends. Let the child know that only more flexible schedule that sometimes very special, but if possible, will remain as it has been agreed.

9. Take her to practice a sport. Many children have been restless in sports, the door to his true vocation. Encourage the child to undertake a sport that compromises their physical, in this way will be releasing energy, will develop their character and will feel satisfied with the achievements obtained.

10. And lastly, never say you're tired (to) him. The child knows when we read in a bad mood because of their immaturity and may believe it is their fault and their behavior may get worse. Take care of your expression of what he says or, if already committed this mistake, sit with him and ask forgiveness. Tell it did due to many factors, but what they really loves and hopes to do everything possible to ensure that he is happy.

A child is a gift, a gift from God. We should be dichosos to take them to our side and be able to embrace and love them. Let everything that is in our power to help them become good people. That is our greatest work, that our goal and our biggest dream.